Welcome to my video series where I address frequently asked questions I get from my family law clients. A divorce may be the first time you need an attorney, so understanding the basics is crucial. A retainer agreement is money you pay up front that the attorney bills against as they complete work at their hourly rate. It’s your money until it’s earned by the attorney through invoicing. Depending on the terms, you may need to replenish the retainer as it’s used up. Understanding how a retainer agreement works is important in navigating your divorce proceedings. Stay tuned for more insights on family law topics.
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Palmer C. Johnson, Esq.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
If you’re going through a divorce and feeling like you’re being denied access to your personal belongings, don’t despair. In this video series, I address common concerns like this one and offer practical advice on how to navigate the situation. It’s important to remember that you have rights, and with the right legal representation, you can ensure that you receive your fair share of the marital property. Don’t let your spouse’s combative behavior intimidate you or make you feel powerless. By taking the necessary steps and seeking legal counsel, you can protect your interests and secure the belongings that are rightfully yours. Contact me at moms.law for a consultation to discuss your specific circumstances and how to proceed in your divorce case.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Having a will is crucial to ensure that your assets are distributed according to your wishes after you pass away. Without a will, the state will determine how your property is divided based on the laws of intestate succession. This may not align with what you would have wanted, so it’s important to take control of your estate planning. Even a basic will can provide clear instructions on how you want your assets to be distributed. If you’re unsure about where to start, speaking with an attorney can help you create a plan that meets your needs and protects your loved ones.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Hello, I’m Tulsa attorney Palmer Johnson and in my video series, I answer common questions about probate and estate planning. One question I often hear is, I don’t have much, do I need a will? My answer is always yes. Even if you don’t have a lot of assets, having a will is important to ensure your wishes are followed and your loved ones are taken care of. As your life changes and you acquire more assets, it’s crucial to regularly review and update your will. Don’t leave your estate to chance, take the time to create a plan with an attorney to protect your assets and provide for your family.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Hi, I’m Tulsa divorce attorney Palmer Johnson and welcome to my video series where I answer frequently asked questions I get from my family law clients. Today, I’m addressing a common misconception about sleeping with your ex during a divorce. While it may not be ideal for various reasons, it does not prevent you from seeking a no fault divorce. Your private activities do not impact the legal process. If you need guidance on navigating your divorce, feel free to reach out to me at moms.law for a consultation. I’m here to provide you with legal representation and advice tailored to your specific case.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Hi, I’m Tulsa Divorce Attorney Palmer Johnson. Welcome to my video series where I discuss frequently asked questions I get from my family law clients. And this one comes up a lot, so I really want to address this one because I think you could get different answers. But the question is, isn’t it better to be the one who files for divorce? And my answer is always, not really, I don’t think it matters. And I think that kind of surprises people, the idea being that whoever files first is the master of the lawsuit and that they somehow obtain an advantage in the proceedings by being the party that files. And I just thought about this and thought about this, and other than the widely held perception that the person who files may somehow have some advantage in the proceedings, I really can’t think of a real valid reason why I think that the other party is in a better position simply because they are the petitioner, is what we call it in a family law case, or the plaintiff would be the term that most people are more familiar with, in their divorce matter. I really, typically when we file the response of pleading to a petition, if my client was not the party that filed, we also file a counterclaim, which is essentially a divorce action the same direction, asking the court for very similar relief to what the other party received. And there’s just no case law, there’s no judicial rules that place the person who files for divorce in a better position than the person who is the respondent or the defendant in the divorce action. And so I just cannot for any reason other than just the simple perception that some people believe that there’s some advantage to that, but I really think there’s no legal basis for that. And if you are contemplating divorce or you and your spouse have discussed it and you feel like it’s a race to the courthouse, I just don’t necessarily think that that in and of itself is a huge factor or something that you should be worried about. It’s certainly something that if the other side files before you file, that you don’t need to spend any time worrying about. It should not dictate the outcome of your divorce and you should not be in a different position, honestly, whatsoever at the end of the case, regardless of whether you’re the petitioner or the respondent. So do I think it matters? I don’t. If you are looking for a divorce attorney in northeastern Oklahoma and would like to schedule a low-cost consultation, you can contact me at moms.law.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
If you’re considering a prenuptial agreement, it’s important to ensure that it’s valid and enforceable. This means full disclosure of assets, independent legal counsel for both parties, and a fair and reasonable agreement that doesn’t appear one-sided. Courts will interpret the agreement based on what’s written, but may also consider the behavior of the parties during the marriage. To avoid challenges of fraud or duress, be upfront, clear, and respectful in the process of creating the agreement. If you have questions about protecting your assets in a prenuptial agreement, don’t hesitate to reach out for a consultation. Your future is worth protecting.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Welcome to my video series where I answer FAQs about family law. Today, we’re diving into prenuptial agreements and how to attack them. Lack of fair disclosure or entering under duress can invalidate the agreement. Provisions like division of duties or conjugal access are unenforceable. While one invalid provision may not void the entire agreement, fraud or duress could. It’s crucial to seek legal advice to protect your rights. Contact me at moms.law for a low-cost consultation tailored to your situation. Ensure your rights are upheld and get the legal representation you need for your divorce or prenuptial agreement.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Hi, I’m Palmer Johnson, a Tulsa divorce attorney, discussing prenuptial agreements in my latest video. A valid prenup can streamline the divorce process by determining how marital assets are divided. However, certain factors like child custody and support may still need to be litigated. It’s crucial to ensure the agreement was entered into fairly, with full disclosure of assets, to avoid challenges later on. If you’re navigating a divorce with a prenup in place, I can provide expert guidance to protect your rights. Reach out to me at Moms.Law for a consultation to discuss your case and safeguard your interests.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
In this informative video, Tulsa Divorce Attorney Palmer Johnson discusses the importance of having a prenuptial agreement. While they may seem uncommon, prenups can provide a roadmap for a smoother divorce process, especially if you have substantial separate assets or children from a previous relationship. Johnson emphasizes that prenups are not just for the wealthy, but for anyone looking to protect their interests in a marriage. If you’re considering a prenuptial agreement, Johnson recommends seeking independent counsel to ensure fairness. To learn more about prenups and how they can benefit you, schedule a low-cost consultation with Johnson at Moms.Law today.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Palmer Johnson, a Tulsa divorce attorney, addresses frequently asked questions about divorces, guardianships, and adoptions in his video series. In this excerpt, he discusses the process of modifying a child custody order in a divorce. He explains that there needs to be a permanent substantial change in circumstances since the previous order was entered, typically after 12 to 18 months. Johnson emphasizes that the best interest of the child is still paramount in determining custody arrangements. He also suggests alternative tools like a parenting coordinator to help navigate communication issues with the other parent. For more legal advice on family law matters, visit Palmer Johnson at Moms.Law.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Are you confused about the difference between joint custody and sole custody? Attorney Palmer Johnson breaks it down in his latest video series, where he answers some of his clients’ most frequently asked family law questions. Joint custody involves both parents making decisions together about their child’s life, while sole custody allows one parent to make final decisions without needing to consult the other. Palmer explains that sole custody is more suitable for high-conflict situations, but it doesn’t necessarily mean limited visitation for the other parent. If you’re in the Tulsa area and need legal advice on family law matters, contact Palmer Johnson at moms.law for a low-cost consultation.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Are you considering divorce but unsure about the cost? Tulsa divorce attorney, Palmer Johnson, answers this frequently asked question in his video series. The cost of divorce varies depending on factors such as whether both parties agree on major issues like child custody and property division. While a DIY divorce is an option, consulting with an attorney can help ensure a smoother process. Johnson emphasizes the importance of considering the cost of staying in a bad marriage on mental health. If you’re contemplating divorce and need guidance on potential costs, schedule a consultation with Johnson at moms.law for personalized advice.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Welcome to my video series where I answer frequently asked questions from my family law clients. Today’s question is, what factors does a court consider when determining custody arrangements? The overall standard that a court will look at is the best interest of the child. This includes the child’s physical and emotional needs, the stability of each parent’s home environment, the child’s relationship with each parent, and each parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent. Courts may also consider a history of domestic violence or drug use. Remember, the goal is to prioritize the child’s well-being and avoid using them as bargaining chips in a divorce. Contact me at moms.law for a consultation.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Are you considering divorce and wondering about alimony? In this video series, Tulsa divorce attorney Palmer Johnson answers frequently asked questions about family law, including how to get alimony in Oklahoma. The key factors are need and ability to pay, so it’s important to understand your monthly expenses and present a clear case for why you require financial support. Alimony is not a permanent solution and can be affected by factors like remarriage or changes in circumstances. If you’re unsure about what to expect in your case, don’t hesitate to reach out for a low-cost consultation at moms.law.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Welcome to my video series where I address commonly asked questions by my family law clients. Today’s question is, how can I demonstrate that I’m a better custodial parent? There are a few key things you can do to show the court that you are the best choice for custody. Demonstrating stability, involvement in your child’s life, communication and co-parenting are all crucial factors. Remember, the court will look at how you facilitate a positive relationship between your child and the other parent. It’s important to follow the custody schedule, be flexible, and show that you prioritize your child’s best interests above all else. If you need a divorce attorney in Tulsa, contact me at moms.law for a low-cost consultation.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Are you struggling with a ex who is not paying their child support? In my latest video, I address this common concern and provide guidance on what steps you can take to enforce child support payments. Remember, child support and visitation are separate issues, and withholding visitation is not a solution to non-payment. If you are in need of legal assistance in handling child support matters, don’t hesitate to reach out to me for a low-cost consultation. Visit moms.law to schedule an appointment and let’s work together to ensure your children receive the financial support they deserve. Like and share this video if you found it helpful!
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Are you struggling with making your kids go to visitation with the other parent? In my latest video, I address this common question and provide valuable insight on why it’s important to encourage a healthy relationship between your children and their other parent. By setting aside personal feelings and presenting the other parent in a positive light, you can help create a stable and supportive environment for your kids. Remember, following the court order is key, unless there are serious allegations of abuse or harm. For more advice on child custody matters, contact me at Moms.Law. And don’t forget to like and share this video if you found it helpful.
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Are you wondering if you’re entitled to half of your spouse’s 401k in a divorce? Tulsa divorce attorney Palmer Johnson has the answer. In his video series, he addresses common questions about divorces, guardianships, and adoptions. If the money in the 401k was earned during the marriage, it’s likely part of the marital estate, meaning you could receive up to half. Even if you didn’t work outside the home, you may still be entitled to a portion of the retirement account. Schedule a low-cost consultation with Palmer Johnson at Moms.Law to understand how to transfer funds without penalties. Like and share this video if you found it helpful!
Palmer C. Johnson, Esq. 
Tulsa divorce attorney Palmer Johnson is here to answer all your burning questions about divorce, guardianships, and adoptions in his informative video series. In today’s episode, he tackles the topic of QDROs – qualified domestic relations orders. This legal tool allows you to transfer funds from a 401k account without facing hefty penalties or taxes. If you’ve been awarded a portion of your ex-spouse’s 401k in a divorce settlement, a QDRO is essential to make that transfer smoothly. Palmer breaks down the process step by step, offering valuable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce settlements. For expert legal advice, reach out to Palmer Johnson at Moms.Law.

